Not a Debate, a Check-In
Priya had been replaying the moment all week. It was nothing dramatic — just Zoe laughing at something on her phone while Priya was mid-sentence, waving a hand as if to say ‘yeah, yeah’ without actually listening. It had stung more than Priya expected. By Thursday, a small distance had grown between them, the kind that does not announce itself but shows up in shorter replies and lunch tables chosen without asking.
That afternoon, walking out of science, Priya caught up with Zoe near the lockers. She had rehearsed a version of this conversation where she listed every grievance and waited for an apology. But somewhere between science and the corridor, she had quietly decided against it. She did not want to win an argument. She wanted her friend back.
‘Hey,’ Priya said, keeping her voice steady. ‘Can I talk to you about something? Not a big deal, but it’s been sitting with me.’
Zoe looked up, slightly wary. ‘Yeah, sure. What’s up?’
‘The other day when I was telling you about the drama camp callback — you kind of checked out halfway through. I know it probably wasn’t intentional, but I felt a bit dismissed. Like what I was saying didn’t matter.’
There was a pause. Priya had expected Zoe to get defensive, to say she had just been tired or that Priya was overreacting. Instead, Zoe leaned against the locker and exhaled slowly.
‘I didn’t realise I did that,’ she said. ‘I remember I was stressed about the maths test and I was only half-present, honestly. I’m sorry — I wasn’t trying to brush you off.’
Something in Priya’s chest unclenched. She had not expected the apology to come that quickly or to feel that genuine.
‘I figured it probably wasn’t on purpose,’ Priya said. ‘That’s why I wanted to mention it rather than just stewing on it.’
Zoe gave a small, rueful smile — the kind that carries both apology and self-awareness. ‘I’ve been pretty distracted lately. I think I’ve been doing it to a few people without noticing.’
‘That makes sense,’ Priya said. ‘Is everything alright with you?’
The question shifted something in the conversation. Zoe had come in expecting to be on the receiving end of a complaint. Instead, she found herself being asked about her own state of mind — and the difference was not lost on her.
‘Kind of,’ Zoe admitted. ‘A lot going on at home. Nothing catastrophic, just — a lot.’
‘Okay,’ Priya said simply. ‘I’m around if you want to talk about it.’
They stood there for a moment in the easy, comfortable way that friendship sometimes offers after tension has been acknowledged. Nothing was fully resolved — the stress at Zoe’s home was still there, and Priya still felt the residual sting of the moment — but something had been repaired, carefully and without drama.
As they headed to the tram stop together, Zoe said, ‘Next time I’m half-checked out, you’re allowed to pull me back.’
‘Deal,’ said Priya. ‘And next time you’re underwater, just tell me.’
It was not a grand gesture. It was just two people choosing to stay on the same side.
Check your vocabulary knowledge
- intentional adj.
- done on purpose, with awareness of what one is doing
- dismissed adj.
- made to feel that one's words or feelings were not worth attention
- rueful adj.
- showing mild regret or awareness of having done something wrong
- residual adj.
- remaining after the main part of something has passed or been dealt with
- catastrophic adj.
- extremely serious or devastating in scale or consequence