Student sample for assessment
Written by a Year 6 student in Altona, Victoria, Australia.
It happened at lunch one day. I was sitting with my friend group when Aisha joined our table. She was new and trying to fit in. Immediately, one of my friends started making jokes about her accent. The others laughed. I felt my face go hot. I knew it was wrong. I knew Aisha looked upset. But I said nothing. I sat there, quiet, not laughing but not saying anything either. I was afraid if I spoke up, my friends would turn on me next. That moment has bothered me ever since. Not because of what my friends did, but because of what I didn't do. I had a choice, and I chose silence. It was easier than risking my place in the group. I did not want to be the person who 'ruins the vibe' by calling something out. That fear—of being left out—was stronger than my conscience. I think what shocked me most was how quickly I made that choice. I did not deliberate. I just automatically went along because going along felt safer. This revealed something uncomfortable about me: I care more about fitting in than about doing the right thing. At least, I did in that moment. That is hard to admit. But here is what I have realised since then. Standing up for someone does not make you unpopular—it makes you someone people can trust. The people worth being friends with respect you more when you have the courage to say something. And Aisha—well, she left that table pretty quickly. I never got the chance to be the person I should have been from the start. Silence seemed safe in the moment, but it was not brave. Now when I see something similar happen, I think of that day. I am not perfect at speaking up, but I am trying. Because I know now that staying silent is a choice too, and it has a cost.